Navigating Life’s Beautiful Bitchiness: My Journey to Life Systems

Life can be a terrifying rollercoaster. For many of us, it’s full of curveballs that knock us down and beautiful moments where it can build us back up. My story is no exception, and it’s what led me to create Life Systems—a way to empower busy moms and chronically ill girlies like me to navigate life’s beautiful bitchiness with balance and ease.

Let me take you back to the beginning.

A Turning Point in the Chaos

In 2020, my world imploded. My dad was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer just before the pandemic locked us all inside. At the same time, my daughter started elementary school via distance learning. I became my dad’s primary caregiver while trying to manage my daughter’s schooling—all while working a toxic 9-to-5.

Picture this: my dad in the front seat heading to chemo, my daughter in the back doing school on her tablet, and me juggling it all from behind the wheel. It was intense. By 2021, my dad’s care required more from me than my job could accommodate. I requested a layoff, only to be told:

“We can grant you two weeks, or we’ll accept your resignation.”

So, I resigned. That decision, as heartbreaking and maddening as it was, became a blessing in disguise. It gave me the space to fully care for my dad in his final months and the clarity to realize I couldn’t live this way anymore.

Diagnosis and a New Path Forward

After my dad passed in late 2021, I thought the storm had cleared. But my body had other plans. A cascade of bizarre symptoms—from dead arm to vision issues—led to a diagnosis of multiple sclerosis (MS). It felt like one more thing piling on, but it also became the moment I decided to reclaim my life.

That’s when the seed of Life Systems sprouted.

Creating Order in the Chaos

At its core, Life Systems is about bringing harmony to life’s craziness. It’s like taking the concept of standard operating procedures (SOPs) from my corporate days and applying them to personal life—but with heart and creativity. Think of it as a personal blueprint for handling life’s messiness.

I started with myself. I asked:

How can I manage my health?
How can I manage my household without burnout?
How can I care for myself without guilt?

The answers became the foundation for what I now call my Household Harmony, Chronic Wellness, and Self-Care Sanctuary systems.

Why Life Systems Work

What makes Life Systems so impactful is their adaptability. These aren’t one-size-fits-all solutions. They’re bespoke tools tailored to your season of life. For example:

Household Harmony helps families function smoothly, whether it’s through clear checklists or empowering others to step up.
Self-Care Sanctuary focuses on prioritizing yourself—scheduling time for mindfulness, hobbies, or just breathing.
Chronic Wellness offers a roadmap for supporting loved ones, making caregiving less overwhelming.

Every system is as unique as the person using it. That’s the magic.

From Personal Chaos to Community Impact

Fast forward to today, and Life Systems has grown into something bigger than me. I’ve developed 13 systems to help others like me—moms, caregivers, and chronic illness warriors—find their version of balance. It’s not about perfection; it’s about progress and peace of mind.

If you’re wondering how to get, I’ve got a free assessment: Which Life System Fits Me This Season? It’s a quick way to figure out what you need most right now.

What’s Next?

I’m focused on growing this mission—one mom, one warrior, one system at a time. Whether it’s through my blog, private coaching, or upcoming workshops, my goal is to empower you to reclaim your time, energy, and joy.

Ready to Simplify Your Life?

Checkout my Your First Life System: A Quick-Start Guide to Simplify Your Day today and start creating the life you deserve.